понедельник, 3 марта 2008 г.

Adultery of the

Noticing her husband for suspicious behaviour, my girlfriend beginning to search for evidence proving his infidelity. Debris found in the used condom is no doubt left about adultery. International dating service CuteOnly is smitten imposing Western world. When she finally decided to make her husband's everything that thinks about this, Rimma, thinking, replied: "You realize that one's suspicions might lead to divorce. Once continued to look for evidence, then wanted to part ways. If you want this, I will not resist. But I know: I did not want anything like this. " Many women, faced with similar situations, often neobdumanno, almost instinctively. They are motivated by resentment, and they do not even try to understand why this happened. Meanwhile, men such behavior can be justified if not, then explain. Most men alleges that they lack one woman, and this is unrelated to the fact that they cease to love his wife or girlfriend is a constant. Our understanding of marriage is based on cultural traditions and not on the desires or needs of the individual as the biological substance. Of course, you can tell that the people and so different from animals, which can keep uzde primitive instincts, but in many societies men have more than one wife, who coexist as sisters and share household responsibilities. We wonder how they can be happy to divide one man, and they, in turn, surprised, as all home affairs can perform one woman. For most women, there is only one standard fidelity - sex. A man who refuses to tranzhiryaschy money or spend time with children is not considered a turncoat, if he had no other women. Conversely, though whether he embodies the ideal family man, any, even the most minor sexual intrigue usually treated as an unforgivable betrayal. And so whether it is important that the man admits sex on the side, if the family for him in the first place? I can not clearly answer that question, but categorical "yes" seems inappropriate to me here. The woman is the guardian of family happiness and well-being. Therefore, in many ways it is the likelihood of it depends treason husband. The constant criticisms, hysteria and screaming little to compel anyone to be loyal, while delicious dinner, small surprises, attention and loving person capable of understanding discourage any desire to look at all sides. All what I want to persuade readers of this article, faced with betrayal - not act impulsively. Before arrange scandal, think about what you want to come as a result of: divorce, or to the family still happily? If divorce - this is not what you want, remember the old truth: the power of love is measured by the degree of forgiveness. And you would keep her husband changed?

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