Women and sex on the side

Statistics, the causes and signs. Ahead without ceremonies: 67% of women dissatisfied with the sexual side of their lives, 79% prefer sex with a lover, and one in four are no longer sleeps with a permanent partner. And there are signs showing that the woman had romantic relationship on the side. Why do you have a romantic relationship on the side? Orders glossy male Player magazine, editor in Hamburg, the question 1103 women who have ever had in life on the side of the love relationship, asked Gewis-Institut, Institute for the Study of Public Opinion. The result was unequivocal: 67% of women attributed this dissatisfaction in the intimate sphere. 79% consider sex with a better lover. The biggest difference - sex on the side 58% of the respondents cited more passionate than in the marital bed. As a result, more than a quarter (28%) of women in general no longer sleep with her partner, another 15% - only very rarely. Equally disappointing for the German men, and are more results of the survey. More than half of women (53%) with ties to the party argue that their conscience or even almost entirely pure and 41% feel pangs of conscience only "from time to time", and only 6% said that the situation for them painfully. Each tenth did not see in his adventure on the side of anything wrong, three-quarters of those surveyed said that the romantic relationship lasts for more than one month - mostly with a colleague (36%) or with a friend (27%), as well as a continuation of the restaurant acquaintances (34% ). How to understand what a woman is preparing to receive visits? 53% dushatsya special spirit, 43% especially carefully painted, one in five nadevaet erotic lingerie.

The most common women's complexes

All of the women's Parks In Western countries known and quite prevalent following sexual complexes: Alice in Wonderland, Titania, Knight and Razvratnika, Messaliny, Cinderella, Don Quixote, Madonna and Bludnitsy, donzhuanizm, complexes Othello, Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde. Complex Alice in Wonderland develops in women living in a world of fantasy. Their rich imagination creates a scenario of love, the perfect union, in which each partner has a role. Those dreams led to the fact that women live with this set of expectations meeting with a partner - the embodiment of their fantasies. When a woman creates complex Titanii our vision of the ideal image of a man who is looking for all his life. Male ideals shaped by literary characters, the heroes of films. The heroes of novels or actors included sexual fantasies, in particular during sexual contact is a woman, as a partner of another person. The essence of the complex Knight and Razvratnika is that the woman is looking for a man in both the knight and razvratnika. In this complex there are two different types: Knight, as the embodiment of masculinity, noble forces inspires confidence and a feeling of security, supports a obozhayuschey his female romantic, pure and innocent, and Razvratnik - embodiment of crude, natural masculine force, superseksualny man. Complex Messaliny women inherently passionate, sensual, sexually excitable, making demands to the partner, changing partners, ie women orgiasticheskoy culture of sex. At different periods of history, the quality of female sexual valued very highly, but today many consider an attractive image of sensuous women in the belief that passion, sensuality - the most important thing in marriage. Cinderella Complex life position reflects passive women waiting tales of the Prince, who will introduce her to the world of adventure, beauty, comfort. Dreams of an unusual, beautiful man typical of early adolescence, but for some women, they persist in adulthood. Such women dream that their passion, noticed injected in a large light. When Don Quixote complex man show against women illusory expectations and desires, spoke about her with adoration, its ethos, building on a pedestal, worships her. The title compound Madonna and Bludnitsy very accurately determine the behaviour of many men brought up on the traditions of Western culture. It is contradictory assessment of women by men. On the one hand, they underscore the value of femininity, loyalty, virtue, loyalty, on the other - valued sensual women, affordable, coquettish. One presents spiritual love, in choosing a wife and mother, to have another lust, it increasingly looking satisfy their sexual needs. Often these men are clearly divide women into two categories: women-wives and female lover. This is a very complex distributed. Even a cursory familiarity with the history of culture shows how complex this is happening - it is a consequence of the double morality, characteristic of men, and peculiar upbringing, kultiviruyuschego recognition of their superiority. Donzhuanizmom called style of conduct, the purpose of which - women win, they have only to satisfy their sexual needs. What more love relationships among these men, the more they are strengthened in the knowledge own male values. The woman while regarded as a thing that, once mastered it, loses its value and interest. Complex Otello is pathological jealousy. Men with such a complex spent his partner often under the effect of alcohol, painting scenes in the minds of his treason. The complex should be considered rather a manifestation of the fear of a woman, fear of being derided, losing their own dignity, as a result of the desire to own inseparably woman. Complex Romeo and Juliet feel love at first sight, the desire for an early conclusion of the marriage. Its origin is linked with the ban prenuptial contact when only permitted sexual love in marriage. The need to connect with this complex so strong that allows lovers to overcome all the obstacles encountered in their path. In our time, this set of very little, because tolerance of premarital sexual intercourse is widely distributed and the marriage is also not a big problem. Together, Tristan and Izoldy combines eroticism and guilt. Individuals with this complex, violating a ban premarital sexual relations, have mixed feelings: on the one hand - sexual satisfaction, on the other - a sense of guilt for a violation of the accepted moral standards. It must be said that the above complexes in themselves are not yet pathology and do not cause sexual misconduct, they only create a background for their development. Such a role is played and sexual myths, such as the myth of fateful woman erotic paradise, golden age, etc. Complexes in behavior, myths, creating some guidelines on sex or partner, can help to create conditions for the development of sexual health violations. The legend of the fateful, fatal typical woman for almost all cultures dominated by men. Thurman while women expressed in a variety of ways, but most often it seems the embodiment of the evil female deities, evil forces, sovratitelnitsey men, etc. Wider is a myth and erotic paradise, which reflects characteristics for a given culture. For example, in the Muslim paradise gurii give eternal sexual pleasure for men, and in the Christian - people moving from the Earth's love of the divine love. Formation of sex and sexual psihotravm complexes, which in the future may affect the sexual behavior contributes to unhealthy upbringing. There are a set of widely available in the world. These include, for example, complex, which appears in the woman after the birth of a child and is a sharp change its attitude to a man - positive or conversely negative. In the latter case, a man reduced to the role of the Marsh ". The most frequent causes of sexual psihotravm in childhood are the following measures applied by parents or situation which might in the future lead to a negative attitude towards sexuality: severe punishment for the boy or girl child-sexual games, accompanied by "explaining" that such games repugnant; indoctrinated children that sexuality grehovna and disgusting; situation where a child accidentally sees sex and istolkuet it as a form of mutual bullying people; frightened, which can cause physiological unprepared child sexuality - masturbation, spontaneous erection, menstruation, erotic dreams. These factors may cause sexual education inferiority complex. Changes in culture, the different layers of culture clash, particularly when interethnic marriages, form their own complexes and myths, which could later become the basis for the emergence of sexual misconduct.

Love length of a year The real story Part 1

Chapter I ACQUAINTANCE All of this started istroiya distant winter 91 years. Yes indeed, this was a very long time ago. Most start restructuring. Other people are not, as it is now. All on the rise. The life and people. So, everyday was a cold winter day. She has that ordinary bank employee. On-yet that the former cashier of one of the companies and a close friend of the Chairman of the Bank. Cold, very cold, even in the premises of the bank, the more that the bank still very young, and people working in it. All money is not enough. Therefore, the bank was located in an old house, but in the center of Moscow. Classrooms were so small that each one of them was bought on the couch, and a pair of chairs and tables, while workers were much more. That's had to take turns to someone sitting on chairs, and someone on the couch. Who places lacked posted on the window sill. But all the people were young and had no claim to the leadership. All were obsessed work, new ideas. The banking world is only just beginning to develop. People were not enough, therefore, to work at the bank was not specific works. It would be a willingness to work. At the finish our retreat and return to our heroes. Door raspahnulas cabinet, and he has appeared on the verge. - Hello-He said - I am Renata. - Lisa - said it timidly. It has not yet been understood who this man, the purpose of his visit. And the most important of which did not know about Lisa, it is what role it will play in her life. Now, I will work in your department. - Well - she replied, friendly smile. While it seemed proskochila among them some spark. Whether it was just the joy of the fact that even though a lively soul appear in the office, because one was quite melancholy, or to spark a pleasant feeling, which is called love. In any case, both liked each other. And when there is no dislike between people, and then work to go well. Lisa introduced in the course of its business. Renate asked her, knowing that she really understand the work, loving it. She gladly accepted. Renat suggested lunch together in the near cafes. The beginning was good. Lisa. felt in the seventh sky of happiness. Good friends, there is no disagreement at work. All faltered. Chapter II APPOINTMENT A month later, he entered the room and was very embarrassed. - Something happened? - asked Lisa. - I mean, was now in the leadership, and I have proposed to be the Chief of Department. I said that we should think about. How do you treat this? I understand that you opytney me, and I am grateful to you, that taught me the work, but, of course, and I know that you have me to learn and learn. This is certainly not true, and, if you will say that you are not happy, then I will go now and say that you have designated Chief of the department. He talked and talked. She saw his face, inconsistencies in his words, and the only one aware that he is now most want to see, she said: "No problem. Chief Let you will. No problem. Thou man, you need growth." So she said. -- Спасибо.Но, we are friends. And as before, our relations remain friendly. This paper, and so on to customers, I - the head. And we should not be this disparity, "said Renate. - Sure. It was good that we found it right away. Not him. All right. At the general meeting of the bank employees, held at the end of the month, noted the positive direction separately work department. It was called the amount of profits which the department has earned for the month. And, as Renate Lisa and the staff were new bank, as usual, it was decided to issue both a certain amount of money for lifting the improved financial condition. At the time it was huge money. Joy and Lisa Renata was not the end. They wanted once when taking pioneers, promise that profits will be even higher, and they will work from dawn till dawn .. All staff were united in joy for the two newcomers. In general attitude in the team resembled a large family. But days Birthday celebrated together when needed on weekends doing their own renovations in preparation for the arrival of some foreign visitors. Chapter III MOVE It is not much time, and it was decided, as room reserved under the credit department, was large enough, and worked in a department only two rights, change the credit unit to a smaller room. It was located at that time the information department, which has worked for five people. By itself, the move was short. Folders dragged out of the room to room. That's all. But it had to be somewhere to put these folders, as they are not lying on the floor. Resources were at least shelves, cabinets request because there was no sense in the room was so small that there was only one table, one chair, a coffee table on wheels and a sofa. A table was old, with a green flannel tabletop, lying on top tolstennoe glass on the entire table. Table stayed, apparently, even from previous occupants of the house, because to make it, not damaging, not possible. It is not clear how he got here at all. Building Superintendent Renato off and brought to the shelves. They had to be mounted on the wall. Of course Lisa, because of its capacity, tried to help him. He fastens shelves, it has diligently supported them. His efficiency of reminded USE husband. Lisa is a very pleasant. And then she realized that it is beginning to fall. Cabinet, on how long it may have been obustroen. Renata, as befits the boss took place at the table. Lisa also had to be satisfied with a sofa, and it pridvigat coffee table. A computer, like a table, too, was one. Therefore, they worked on the queue. But these difficulties are not frightened. They understood that the bank young, still change for the better, you need only wait.

Why sverhintellektualnym men not lucky with women

We teach men, science communication with the women for several years ... and noticed that one of the scenarios on which operate many men, a very no-go. We identified this scenario as a "denial paradox geniuses." Is it that men, producing impression on women, constantly building of a sverhintellektualnyh people (or indeed they are). We believe that much of what you IFAW below, you seem quite describing another person, but not you. Well, if so. Because this is a problem that confronted many of our friends. I ourselves. You know that little otlichaeshsya from other men. You probably still in their teens realized that you look at things differently, to think differently than everyone else. And you probably realized that tvoja strong opinion gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life ... Twohy dissenting opinion giving you a specific advantage, which is very, very helps you in life: YOU USUALLY RIGHTS. This move helps rightness in many spheres of their lives, their rightness of their way clear. But, unfortunately, this tvoja dissenting opinion often can be futile, if not VREDNYM when we consider a key area of our lives: RELATIONSHIP WITH WOMEN. In addition, we, men, internally assume that if we are going to display their intelligence and education, "load" women their knowledge, they invariably imbued with tremendous sympathy to us. Unfortunately, this is very far from the truth. Now switch your imagination, and listen ten reasons why most intelligent guys fail with women ... and what to do. These causes can be combined in various men's quite different combinations. First CAUSE: When a man acted improperly, he did not see or did not want to see and recognize that It's no secret that wise guys used to consider themselves PRAVYMI in most situations. And what do they do when they are in a situation where they are wrong? They quickly tried to hide its wrong and find a way out of such a situation. They did not accept that wrong. Remember: if you got in a situation with a woman, when you are wrong, you never have to UBEGAT PRYATATSYA OR! Of course, accept the fact that you are not human - it is very difficult for an energetic guy. And accept that you are not only wrong, but did not even know how to correct his mistake - even more difficult test. However, it turned out that it is those men who acknowledge their wrong, and his ignorance, which is the way out of the situation, learn faster than others, and seek better results than others. And, in addition, NRAVYATSYA PARNI WOMEN THAT MAY OWN NEPRAVOTU RECOGNIZE THAT UCHATSYA FOR THEIR MISTAKES AND DO NOT REPEAT STREMYATSYA. Even very intelligent men brings their logic. They believe: BECAUSE I DID NOT GLUPY PAREN, IN WHICH IF I CAN NOT VYYASNIT HOW TO WOMEN WITH USPESHNYM, NERAZRESHIMA TO THIS PROBLEM AND NOT COST MORE TO DECISION I ISKAL. As you know, this is a direct way to give up. If this is your life story, read priuchay themselves to a goal before the end, carefully examining where you are wrong. Second CAUSE: They are blind and arrogant In short, many of the guys who consider themselves very smart, refuse to recognize the fact that a good, solid and substantive response could come from anyone else but themselves. In other words, they think: is this Eloise might say something smart? I therefore do not take into account other, considering themselves above the rest smarter. Traditionally ask you a question. Simulate this situation: you do move Sahara on foot. Who would you, in such a case would be chosen as a guide? Most smart guy on the planet with the highest coefficient of intelligence, or cave man who lived a million years ago, which has accumulated experience in the fight for survival, which has about 50 IQ - well below nowhere ... but he knows how to survive in difficult circumstances as to earn your food and tame wild animals? Rather, you choose the second. Now, we hope you understand that you need not equal to the so-called wiseguys, but on the people who overcame their lives for a lot of obstacles, survived many dangerous situations and are not theoretical, but practical experience. And now we ask you a question similar to the above. If you want to learn how to be successful with women, from whom you will be asking the board: among educated intellectual, or the guy poglupee in terms of exact sciences, but eat dog in the art of the gains women's hearts? All these guys-guys who do not want to learn from those who may be poglupee or, conversely, smarter, they make a great mistake, considering: "For what it articles, I should learn from them?". And he serves disservice to the legacy of our folklore, which often glorifies false model in terms of the gains the women's hearts. Indeed, perhaps life has led you to the conclusion that moving neotesanny can make the heart beat more often female than the prince on a white horse. What is the conclusion? Stop clueless be arrogant. Look around - because by your side full of guys who know how much iskusney you behave with women. Ask them to help you - do you save years, the stress, years of hard work. Main - are you able to analyze and draw conclusions. Third CAUSE: scarce skills in communication Here we all think: how many intelligent guys disappear from the fact that their skills to maintain a conversation with women are very poor. Many of them think: "Why should I get this in communication skills, these skills - to lower creatures that are nonsense and do not appreciate the time ..." These guys do not even attempt to learn these skills because they do not understand that these automatic skills help them be successful with women. Incidentally, in case you do not know ... Skills in communication - this is just skills. They are not public information. There is no theory on them. They simply are skills that need to get their own. And you do not get these skills, just thinking about them. You will receive them only in practice. Excellent skills in communication - the basis for good relations with people. And if you do not enjoy such skills, you ponizhaesh drastically their ability to succeed with women. Fourth CAUSE: they are suspicious in itself Our subconscious always seeking to protect us from undue risk, and some guys result of this "phenomenon" becomes quite illogical side effect. When they were going to find an approach to the woman, it must invent "sickness sentence," explaining why this approach will not work. They simply to configure their own failure. They use all his rich imagination to imagine how a woman would be their "otshivat" inside themselves some negative emotional mood, which ultimately leads to total passivity. This is all truth, which is very difficult to reach using the usual logic - here requires enormous PRACTICAL experience that intellectuals can boast extremely rare. And as a result, they are people who knowingly doom themselves to failure, even when not yet begun to operate. Maybe the time has come to live by this stop and focus on the consequences? Fifth CAUSE: they are seeking only "informative decision" What makes the intellectuals, when faced with a problem or wants to understand something that he does not know? He is looking for information that will help him solve the problem. The more information, the clear answer to that question. Information - mutually intelligible. Detected a computer virus? Nothing is easier - seek on the Internet anti-virus program. Do not know how to replace the battery in the car? Buy the Book and Open such a visit. One does not know what the definition of a word? Create a dictionary. So what intellectuals do when they have problems with women appear? Correct - talked for TIR and begin to look for the answer there. They want to get as much information. They think that the answer will find, if a certain technique to explore. Or read another book. We are already tired of writing about it, but ... Many still do not understand. It is not clear that in order to succeed, you need to spend a lot of time to study basics, to change their attitudes towards domestic studied the issue and of itself. We surely do not want to say that the study of literature, such as this article - an exercise in futility. Not at all. But if you have a problem, which is EMOTSIONALNOY FIZIOLOGICHESKOY or by nature, how much would you have millions of smart books or read, it almost does not help the cause. You have to get in the real world and test themselves at all. YOU should not look at the SAMU problem, but in KOREN problem. When it comes to relationships with women, it is likely that in your arsenal has a natural MORE THAN ENOUGH "information". Intellectuals often use the information to escape from taking action. This is one of the mechanisms of psychological protection. Remember: it protects you from stress, but it hurts your success. Sixth CAUSE: they focus on logic rather than emotion Here you thesis: "Women do not feel attracted to the men who forced them DUMAT. They feel attracted to the men who forced them CHUVSTVOVAT." So, what do intellectuals, the first woman met? EXACTLY! They learn intellectual conversation. They are trying to take a highly women interviewed, not knowing that by doing so they only hurt themselves. These "trigger" for an informative communication channel, which has a negligible effect on the awakening of women's attraction as compared to EMOTSIONALNYM. Perhaps the monkey, stupidly barabanyaschaya Keyboard pick up faster collection of works of Pushkin than you zataschish woman in bed, holding her intelligent conversation. When you are talking to a woman about any abstruse nonsense you, figuratively speaking, put yourself in the forehead bright and colorful stamp: "I failed with women". Typical topics of discussion in such discussions are: Work Institute, politics, religion, weather and anything necessarily about computers, mathematics and artificial intelligence. A woman waiting for the discussion of human relationships. They are waiting for compliments. They are waiting game finally. If you come to the case creatively, we can achieve much. Ask, for example, to issue the following lines: "Why all the women said that they like sweet, milenkih boys, as well as themselves drawn to the selfish, jaunty bad guys?" -- and then receive pleasure from a cheerful, emotional conversation. Seventh CAUSE: they do not enjoy the immediate impulse Intellectuals usually find time to mix well to think over the situation. If they decide to test, the produmyvayut each question carefully. If faced with a mathematical challenge, then sit and decide it through. Intellectuals can devote at least some time to prepare for each situation and then boasting success. And it helps them in their lives. Not so with women. If you do not know what to do at each step, it will be "otshit" very quickly. For women, there is a tremendous one, a special instinct for such guys. For women, there are a number of tricks and stunts, they are experiencing us to determine to what category we belong - to those who "seeks his" and "who is not seeking her". And if you otnosishsya second category, it very quickly provalishsya on one of these tests. But worst of all is that you will not even know that you had experienced. The key to the formation of the more successful a woman is the ability to treat all tests, it sent you. So, if you have not yet read the article "Checking" Do it now, without delay. Too smart men usually do not have the skill of the gains women at emotional level, so they are not guided by the Interior minute gusts of emotion. They are not decisive. They do not avantyurny. They are not capable of living today. Therefore, before ascertain how to deal with those checks, you need to start to learn how to build a relationship with a woman on the emotional level as her show that you have the basic skills, how to show themselves in the best light. Eighth CAUSE: they think that the implementation of "pleasant" things - a "reasonable way" As usual, you ask a question at the landfill, which navedet you on the correct thoughts. Suppose you going to visit his supermodel, with the most beautiful, the one with which you want. Which of the following listed ways to prepare for the first Dater you thou most reasonable? Learn what flowers she likes most, and to appear to visit with a huge bouquet to strike her. Find out what she likes to visit places most of all, and to invite her. Find out what she likes most of all is for you to keep it in the restaurant ... pleasing her, and she was able to see that you cared enough to select exactly what she gets pleasure. Well, the time limit expired. What item do you chose? We warned that this - the issue at the landfill. :) Among the listed NO ONE NI PRAVILNOGO RESPONSE. But WHY - ask you? These three options, all seemed logical, right? Why would either come to visit his armful of flowers? Why would either find where she likes to walk? Why would either keep it in a restaurant, which she like? Now interchange ... Smart guys think that they do commit INTELLIGENT AND ZNACHIMY act when they do such things like a woman buying her favorite colors ... and think that this provides a victory in the first date. Agree? They generated about brain following thought: "I want to show a guy that reflect everything in advance, and I am going to come with flowers to show her that I KNOW THAT SHE LOVES that I am ready to give it what it wants, when it wants, and when she sees these flowers, it grows right there and fall for me. " Not a bad logic, is not it? OK, but there is one tiny mistake to allow these "guys" - it is that they do not realize that do not have to be smart to do that. Anyone can do it! ANY donkey can learn subservient to the woman. WOMEN AND THINKS THIS! SO THAT ALMOST EVERY POSTUPAET THUS! Again, in its first pages, we are not talking about this again. Smart guy, with all his arrogance of the proud, will think that he one such anthem, which uses the "thoughtful" approach ... and the woman he was trying to win, take it as another fancy man who wants her, trying to buy her body for its "presmykanie" before it. Another question to ponder. Ninth CAUSE: they always want to look at all the experts Have you ever met an intellectual guy who likes to consider himself a connoisseur in any matter? You met someone who would be up to the loss of pulse would argue with you about what the very weak understanding, if not smyslit? Consequently, which makes fool of himself, simply because there can close your mouth? I very rare phrase, which he delivers is "I do not know." At our course "Advanced Russian Design Of Relationship" we were faced with such people many times. "Ashes" is not like to be novices in any case. They prefer to say something, rather than remain silent. In any conversation they manage to walk a clever phrase, especially if they watch others. This is exactly the type of people complexes which are not resulting in a complete closure, but in excessive talking. They want to portray themselves from sverhintellektualov, thus seem the "expert" in any situation. Rather than rest say "Yes, I amateur in the matter. Teach me what I have to do and how to act, they prefer BOSCH their clever phrase, thereby exposing themselves stupid. Therefore, they fail. Our advice to you: do not be afraid to be in something newcomer. Better Off confess this than to say that you do not know. Tenth CAUSE: they may not have to deal with the sense of danger and other emotions INTENSITY intellectual guy - this is his opinion. His SLABOST - it is often EMOTSII. This guy is often OSTANAVLIVAETSYA TO MINE. Full stop. And even frozen. And as many intellectuals are not accustomed to dealing with things in which they have dealt with poorly, they are simply a UBEGAYUT from danger without a fight. Many men prefer UMERET alone than admit that they do not know how to deal with their emotions ... or ask for help! After all, any guy can really learn to treat and even SPRAVLYATSYA with their emotions (even with such a sense as a sense of danger) if he only spends time and effort to learn HOW to do it.

5 mistakes that prevent you Dating

Here are five mistakes that make single women (and men) in the initial phases of visits and relations. If something sounds familiar - let's try to rectify that! 1. If you think you have no love, and it will not be. Many women after a series of fruitless visits of parting and feel that they have something fatal, "nevlyublyaemoe." They say phrases like "Who can I be needed? Obviously, I am doomed to loneliness. Me at the crown of celibacy (angry rock, very fate, which go)." Of course, we all deserve love! And as you thought? But if you insist on a pro constantly twisted his share of loneliness and stamp on the forehead, that attitude is beginning to manifest itself in every word, every act and a gesture. In these women Muriel doomed halves with timid hope and the desire to do twice as much to keep a devotee of the ordinary evil fascination. Result: we are working relationship, anchored for cars passing train, just not staying alone. And if you start to convince yourself to the contrary - "I have such a beautiful (the good, clever, erudirovannaya, charming, I just doomed to a great love?" Maybe cranial worth a try, as did the "most charming and attractive" Irina Muravyova heroine? To Retain away defeatist thoughts, start with a simple: diary afterwards. For example Bridget Jones fyrchite men vypleskivayte evil thoughts to paper and ubezhdayte itself, in its irresistibility. Day after day, it will be given all the easier. Ask your friends and your girlfriends to compile lists of positive qualities and record them on the first page of the diary to see them constantly. 2. Try to stop to see the enemy in men. Yes, the harsh truth of life is that good men were far fewer than the bad, mediocre and fair. But they remained, and they can be found anywhere. According to a law of nature Harmful women pulls it is to those men, who tend not to respond to calls and sms ethicists, say idiotic false excuses to care only about their mental rest, recognized in love and then have sex with your best friend. Such a feeling that women tend to have a idiocy. Sometimes the reason you need to go in childhood: perhaps your father was the soul of the company, but the harsh and cold homes. You had to climb out of the skin, to earn his attention. When you grew up, you still metaphorically meet with the "Pope". Believe me - life with well-positive man, boring and predictable at first glance, be denied the extreme ups and downs, but full of serenity, warmth and care. 3. Repeat as spell: love - is not a leash. Once 29 - year-old Tony, my acquaintance, has received the offer hands and hearts. It was her dream home life, in her fantasies, she and the groom were inseparable and the day and night. But the young man have other views on family life. He was not ready to relinquish the sake of the fish and Tony preference each week with friends, although she believed that it was not worth spending their free time on other people's lives. Her uncertainty and a thirst for attention future spouse literally put under house arrest. Of course, it was only a desire to break out of it. As a result, Tony and groom parted. Summary: even the happy couple are in need of space for growth. The more dynamic the life they live - to work, hobbies, friends - so they become more interesting for its second halves. 4. Treason - is always a treason, even if it happened in the imagination. It goes without saying that your partner has the right to the attitudes on with respect and kindness. Had he told about their problems, and good luck in bed failures, joys and frustrations attractive blond-colleague at work, you would have liked? Probably sounds somewhat madly, and all the same: there is one person who is primarily a right to your time and energy, and the man - your friend, husband, fiance. And if you spend your 'mental energies to another person, you are agreeing to pull energy from their relationship. That is your partner, rather than colleague, has the right to hear about your first flights in a dream, intimate experiences and felicitous joke, podslushannuyu in the subway. 5. If you constantly need to be right, this is wrong. Perhaps you feel that you have a lot in common with another. You both economists, both are loved to play backgammon, and the tango dance at a ski. Perhaps you know some steps better than your partner, in addition know how to dance waltz and a little salsa. This does not mean that it is you also have to better understand the wines, engine oil and modern drama. The habit is similar to the justice of the disease. Once otlichivshis, people want to be right in everything. Turn difficult, but possible. Apologize - this does not show weakness. What's happening in love must concede, and sometimes very strongly.

Men are predisposed to unsafe sex

It turns out some men are psychologically predisposed to unprotected sex. Risk catch any disease does not diminish their sexual desire, as happens with most people, while depression and stress forced them to seek casual partners. This conclusion came specialists Kinsley Institute in the United States. However, John Bencroft, director of the institute said that so far, very little is known yet about how the nature and characteristics of sexual stimulation affect the desire to unsafe sex. He and his colleagues conducted a study in which it interviewed 1500 homosexual and heterosexual men. As a result, among them was found a group of people - about 10-20% - ready to go to the sexual act, even though it may endanger their health. The survey found that while depression or stress from 40-45 per cent of men decreased sexual desire, and about an equal number of men did not perceive any difference. But there is a small group of men who are more sexual arousal when they have a bad mood. In doing so, the group of men started up in search of casual partners. Risk "catch" any risk of disease or unwanted pregnancy causes many men weakening of sexual stimulation. Fear creates the "off" them, said Bencroft. Conversely, men, sexual arousal that such a risk has no impact, the most inclined to engage in unsafe sex, such as anal sex or sex without a condom. "They brought, in spite of the threat" - Bencroft said. The threat can be a catalyst for sexual stimulation. The survey found that people who were more inclined to adventurism, while more involved in unprotected sex. For these types of people all sorts of advertising campaigns to promote safer sex, useless, said Frank Farley, a psychologist at the University of Tepml. "They do not want safe sex. spoils This is all fun." Instead, such people should send their adventurism in a different way, for example, to keep mountaineering, jump on the ropes from a height and stuff, Farley said. It is not known whether there is such a phenomenon and women. Psychologist Eli Coleman, program manager for the Exploration of human sexuality, of the University of Minnesota Medical School in the city Minneanapolis said that the men who, in response to the depression starting to look for casual sex is likely to try to engage in self influence on the chemical composition of the brain. Perhaps, in this way they receive "charge" toxins, chemicals that impose sedative effect. Coleman said that the phenomenon could result in adult cases of sexual abuse in childhood. "We always come to the clinic these men, many of whom have experienced sexual abuse in childhood. We know that this trauma can chemically alter the composition of the brain" - he says.

Women are more likely to change husbands during ovulation

Women are often reluctant to treason during ovulation. This conclusion came the University of British scientists city of Sterling. In their view, the change in hormone levels of women in this period forcing her to seek man for conception the most healthy and strong child and as a consequence, "walk on the side." According to the "BBC", to undertake the study, scientists obtained the two groups of women. During the experiment, each of the subjects could change the picture of a man they wish - or thicken utonchat neck, the lower jaw to make a square (or vice versa), and so on. The first group was tested at the time of ovulation, the second - beyond that period. Women who were at the height of the menstrual cycle, depicted men with pronounced masculine appearance. The control group drew more feminine ideal partner. How to explain the scientists say men features excellent half the level of testosterone in the male body. If the level is low (a person wedding), a person can be a good permanent partner. But with the heightened level of men, in the opinion of subjects has improved set of genes to create a strong and healthy offspring.